If you have ever seen the 2002 film “Two Weeks Notice” with Sandra Bullock and Hugh Grant you can see how easy it is to fall in love with someone you trust. With any relationship it’s important to have trust, without it every situation that presents itself can turn into World War 3. In this article we will give you the three key components in building, earning, and keeping true trust in your relationship with your partner that will leave you both happier than ever.
1. Respect: “Build”
Like Birdman told the host of The Breakfast Club in his last radio interview with them. “When you say my name put some respek on it”. Respect is the component that is most important. If someone doesn’t show you respect you will loss all credibility for them and you will not be able receive the other two
components correctly. When looking for respect search for these behaviors: integrity, communication, and
reliability
Integrity: If someone respects you they will have integrity for themselves, they will hold themselves
accountable to a standard and that will show in their actions towards you.
Communication: If someone respects you they have no problem communicating with you on their intention, plans, and were they see things going in the future.
Reliability: If someone respects you they will be a reliable person of their word. They hold true to the things they say and show you time after time that they deliver.
2. Understanding “Earn”
Life has a way of throwing you a lot of curve balls through it all you want to have someone by your side that understands what it takes to keep swinging and be your cheerleader whether strikeout or homerun. When looking for someone that is understanding search for these behaviors: flexible, competent, and patient.
Flexible: If someone is understanding they are flexible and willing to work with you when changes in life happen and are open to compromise. If someone doesn’t see the purpose of the bigger picture with you it will always their way or no way. That’s not the person that you should want to be with for the long haul because they only get worst with time.
Competent: Someone how is understanding of your life
is competent enough to helps you execute goals on your life list with their productive input. This shows you how helpful that are to have as your partner.
Patient: Someone that is understanding is always patient with you. The best way to notice if they hold this behavior and are not just a flake is how offer they checks in with you. If they periodically reiterating that they are waiting for you and don’t just disappear until you are available 9 times of 10 you can bank on them as patient
3. Considerate “Keep”
Now I cannot stress to you the importance of this component. If someone does the other two components and not this one, chances are you will not stay very long. When looking for someone that is Considerate search for these behaviors: compassionate, sincere, and intimacy
Compassionate: Someone is always looking to solve the problems of the world with passion and good spirt. A good sign of this is if they are involved in community programs or organization.
Sincere: Someone that shows a warm heart felt caring nature for the people around them and in their life is a good sign to see if they are sincere. If they only have negative things to stay about the people in their circle more than likely they will talk about you the same way to other people with no remorse.
Intimacy: If you notice I put this behavior last that’s because you want someone to show you the first two behaviors first before you should be open to receiving this behavior. When you are with someone that uses this behavior to show you how much they appreciate you and does the things you enjoy nothing is more considerate.
Keep in mind that true trust for someone else starts with trust in yourself. It truly requires you to take the BIG leap of Faith not in your partner but in yourself. If you do not trust and install these habits for yourself towards your partner you will not receive them in return. The laws of karma are real and you will always get back what you put out, so only treat people the way you want to be treated.
Note:
Singles
Look for these qualities in people you go out with if you do not see signs that they hold true to them on the first three dates run for the hills.
Couples
If you are exuberating these qualities and your partner doesn’t response favorably remember Rome was not built in a day. With any new behavior consistence is key. Stay true to giving your partner these qualities for 3 weeks straight. It normally takes 21 days to create a new habit.
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